Prelude to a Personal Pandemic, with a little Knitting

This thirteen-year-old, on her way to her 8th-grade-graduation ceremony and dance, looks so happy and lovely, doesn’t she?

The picture of health, wearing her new lacy wrap that her mother made her to match her vintage dress.

She graduated,


danced her silver shoes off, had fun with all her friends, even posed for a few more wrap pics when she came home.

(as did the wrap, click to embiggen if desired)

artistic-wrap-pose night-wrap

Who knew that even as those pictures were taken, that microscopic virus particles were replicating madly in her body?

The next morning, she looked tired, but said she just hadn’t slept well.  It was the last day of school, a half day only, and the school talent show; she and a friend were performing Leonard Cohen’s “Hallelujah” (she singing, he on acoustic guitar).  Her forehead was cool and she had no other symptoms, so off she went to school.

While backstage, waiting to perform, she had shaking chills so bad she couldn’t stand, aches, a headache, a sore throat that came out of nowhere.  Of course, all her friends came over and hugged her while she was curled up sitting on the floor, having chills…. The teacher backstage tried to send her to the nurse, but now it was their turn to perform.  She told the teacher she would go as soon as she sang — it would only take two minutes.  Such a performer. She got up, sang on her shaky legs (they disinfected the microphone immediately thereafter), and was promptly sent home with a fever.

So: my poor daughter, in the end, was found to have H1N1 (swine) flu.  But the drama goes on, because in less than 48 hours she, I, and her friend were supposed to fly to College Park, Maryland (on the outskirts of Washington DC) for the finals of National History Day.  If she couldn’t go, her friend couldn’t either; they would have to withdraw (they were doing a dramatic presentation).  They had been working on this project literally all school year, and won at regional and state levels to be going to the national competition.  My daughter wanted to go, if at all possible.

My first concern was for my daughter’s health; my second was that her friend not get sick; my third was that she was safe to fly (that is, not get anyone else sick).  Once I realized she probably had flu from her symptoms (Wisconsin has the largest number of reported confirmed cases of swine flu in the U.S.),  my first call was to make a doctor’s appointment for that day, and the second was to an infectious disease specialist I know, who happens to be the father of my daughter’s friend as well.  I needed to know what the criteria were for her being safe to fly.  “No fever and no cough”.  OK.

To make an already long story a little shorter, by getting on an antiviral immediately (which shortens the period of infectiousness and symptoms), she got better remarkably quickly, and had no fever within 24 hours, and no cough by 36 hours.  So we flew to DC.  Her friend never got sick.  Neither did I.  My daughter did not feel good, granted, since she felt like a truck ran over her and had a constant headache unless she had ibuprofen on board.  And when she finished the antivirals, some other symptoms flared.  But they did their performance and got good comments from the judges, though they didn’t go on to the final round, to their great relief, actually.  (And we had a couple days for sightseeing, therefore.)

While I was gone, my husband and my younger daughter came down with the flu too.  My younger daughter developed croup and needed to be put on steroids.  Sigh.  So I was monitoring them and worrying from long distance, while nursing my older one and trying to make sure my daughter’s friend didn’t get sick (or me).   And hoping my mother, who’d been exposed to both daughters separately right before they got sick (you’re infectious in the 24 hours before you develop clear symptoms also), didn’t become ill either.

I still can’t believe I didn’t get it, but obsessive handwashing goes a long way, I guess.  There’s still some coughing and tiredness going on around these parts, but everyone is well on their way to being back to health now.  Many other middle schoolers got sick, at least a couple directly from my daughter (like the boy who played guitar with her), but there had been an outbreak that week, as it turned out; the cases just hadn’t been confirmed yet, so there had not been a notification (and I don’t know that it would have changed much, except reminding parents to keep kids with fevers at home; mine had no fever in the morning, when I checked by mommy-thermometer).  A letter came in the mail the next week…..

So that’s what I’ve been up to!

I hope to tell you more about DC, when time allows.  (Like about the girls feeling right at home in the Oval Office….)


13 responses to “Prelude to a Personal Pandemic, with a little Knitting

  1. What the heck was that?! o.O

    I hope everyone is feeling better soon and that your mother didn’t get it. Your daughter really is a trooper for going on while feeling so bad.

  2. Spam blocker FAIL 🙂

    I’m so glad your family is well and you and your mother never got sick! Is the “Hallelujah” up on YouTube perhaps?

  3. Swine flu spam comment removed, for those who wonder what Cookie and Astrid were referring to!

    Astrid, I hope someone videotaped it; I’ve been too busy to check. The boy’s father might have, my daughter said. I’d love to have seen it! (I was at work and couldn’t duck out.)

  4. Glad to see you’re back to the computer, Cathy, and that everyone is on the mend.

  5. Oh how aweful! It is surprising who gets it and who doesnt. Thanks goodness you didnt!!!

    She looked beautiful and my daughters admired her pictures. The wrap is beautiful!!!

    take care!

  6. Oh wow! So good to hear that everyone’s safe and sound, but goodness, what a week . . .

  7. Whew. Glad everyone is on the mend.

  8. Your family had quite a week. I’m glad to hear everyone seems to have come through it OK. Your daughter looks lovely and so is the wrap.

  9. OH MY!! 1) glad she had a good time at the dance; (that shawl, the dress, the shoes — EYE-WATERINGLY beautiful!) 2) sorry to hear about the durn pigflu, but glad everyone’s on the mend; and 3) WHAT DID THEY DO FOR HISTORY DAY??? I’m a judge, and I judged some of the performances!! Who, what, why, where — inquiring minds are DYING to know!!

  10. First of all, congratulations on 8th grade graduation — such a beautiful dress and lovely shawl to match!

    Thank goodness everyone is back on the road to good health — happy that the girls were able to make the DC trip!!

  11. Glad everybody’s feeling better… what an ordeal! And what grit and fortitude in your 13 year old… I swear, she always looks like she’s 16 in those pictures (NOT what you want to hear, eh?). Were they really at the real oval office? Or is it a mock up staged thing for pics???

  12. Your daughter is a trouper, and so are you! Great story, and I’m glad you never got that flu.

  13. Congrats! on the daughter’s various escapades, and on the shawl, and on not getting sick. Yikes! on the flu. Glad you got through that.

    Please tell me that is not the real Oval Office.

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